I am not an expert by any means, just like to express my logical thoughts about it.
BE SPECIFIC!
For example- " I will meet the man of my dreams" ---too general--maybe you have nightmares--maybe you meet him at the wrong time---maybe he's dead and you meet him by dying. Get the picture? BE SPECIFIC! can't stress that enough.
I'd like to add that the files on this site (at least the ones I've listened to) seem well planned and have this in mind. :o
Any thoughts?